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Not just an extra pair of hands

More than just an extra pair of hands

When I was a kid, the role of the father was always that of the bread-winner, the person who you saw late at night or on the weekends and sometimes the threat that our mothers always used; “wait till your father gets home”. This was just how it was. As I have grown older and have had children myself, I see it was much more than this.
Our fathers taught us the importance of a strong work ethic, responsibility, compassion and respect. Considering that their fathers possibly had even less interaction with them, these things are invaluable.

My relationship with my father has never been stronger than it is today. He is someone I can go to for advice on my business, a pillar of strength if I need help emotionally and an amazing grandfather to my two boys. He is continuing to teach my boys all of these vital tools while enjoying not having to be the bad cop anymore, just the jelly bean supplier.

My father taught me that I am worth respect and kindness, that I can do anything I put my mind to and if doesn’t work out at least I tried.

If mothers are the heroes of child rearing, significance of a father in the development and emotional well-being of a child is no less. But over the decades, a lot has changed. It is often said that daughters are closer to their father because they are the first ideal man in their life. On the other hand, for sons, father is an idol and the strongest man they aspire to emulate.

With the growth of nuclear families and both parents working, fathers do not shy away from taking care of their children. From changing nappies to putting their children to sleep, no task is difficult for modern-day fathers. This cultural change is helping in strengthening father-child relationship and consequently in emotional development of a child and building of stronger family bonds.

Often, contribution of a father in their children’s lives is overshadowed by that of the mothers. They are not given the due credits for their participation in the development and upbringing of their children. Fathers are equally important like mothers and play a significant role.

So, to the fathers in our lives, I personally want to thank you for not just being another set of hands. But standing side by side with your partners and showing our future generation that a man can be strong, caring, nurturing, approachable and an invaluable role model.
Happy Father’s Day for June 17th.
Xxxx
Claire

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