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#I’M TIRED

I’m Tired.

Said every mother FOR YEARS.

What do these simple two words really mean.

I’m tired is code for I am getting by, I haven’t slept for a year, I haven’t had a shower or yes sometimes even a bowel movement without an audience and no longer than 5 minutes in a very long time.

I’m tired means I need help, I need a coffee, I need a break, but most of the time it means I am just about holding my head above water, while trying to keep our little angels alive, going to work and trying to be an adult, trying to keep a house in some order so a hazmat team is not needed or social services are not called because you didn’t have the energy to bath your children every night and resorting  to a few quick wipes with a wash cloth every now and then, you don’t get time to shower so sometimes they don’t either.

I’m tired can sometimes be a call for help or just looking for a simple nod from another mother, letting them know that they are not alone.

I’m tired is not looking for a condescending tone of I told you two children was enough, these years are so precious you should enjoy every minute of it.

I’m tired will not last for your whole life span of being a mother but it is going to be your hashtag for a very long time.

When you are tired just try to find that right balance between keeping little humans alive, keeping yourself from looking like a human and knowing that your children think you are the moon, the stars and the sun all rolled into one.

These beautiful little humans don’t care about the “good housekeeping guide of 1952”, they don’t care about how clean they are, they don’t care about how clean the floor is (because they are only going to dump all their toys on it 5 minutes after you have cleaned it), they don’t care about how you don’t have a 7 course dinner on the table, sometimes a bowl of cornflakes sitting on the floor together can become one of their most precious memories.

So, my advice to you is that:

I’m tired has so many meanings, your children do not look for the finer things in life for happiness they will look to you to be there, in some shape or form, not all the outings that you just couldn’t face, but for the cuddles on the couch and the listening ear that no matter how tired you are, you will always give.

Please stop being hard on yourself if your children are happy, healthy and still get excited about seeing you, their moon, stars and sun, you are doing an amazing job.

I will not say it’s easy, I will not say it will end soon, however I will say I am tired too and I get you.

Claire

Sunflower

I’m posting this picture of my little sunflower for #worldsuicidepreventiondayDo you see the flawed leaves, the dark spots, the small size?Or.Do you see the bright yellow petals beginning to open, how tall it stands despite its attacked leaves from outside pests, how despite not looking like a Van Gogh painting it still knows that is a proud sunflower and will always look to the sun.Don’t let anyone make you feel like your not the best that you can be and always face towards the sun, stand tall and bloom.It’s ok and you’re not alone.Claire🌻☀️#itsok #youok #support #sunflowers #dublin #talk #youarenotalone #standtall

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